Category Archives: Love Yourself

The difference between detachment and letting go

I wonder what kind of home you live in – is it a terraced house, a semi-detached, a house standing on it’s own, or is it a top or bottom of a house split in two?  It might be an apartment, in the middle of a greater whole. Maybe you have a room in a…

What’s the difference between unconditional love and martyrdom

There is such a call for unconditional love these days, but what the heck is it and how do you give it without turning your giving practice back into a chore, a must do exercise, or some sort of notion that love is simply give, give, give without a thought of being worthy of receiving….

From Cinders to Cinderella – A Case Study

Last week I wrote about how Cinderella is a great role model.   What I forgot to mention was that she’d been a client of mine, obviously it was only in my dreams.   I have of course asked her permission and all other names and details have been changed to protect the innocent! This is how…

Cinderella is a great role model

It flashed past, and I managed to find it again.  A tweet about Cinderella.  I really can’t remember much about the original tweet, but that it made me smile and I retweeted it.  I do however remember the backlash to my retweet by one of my followers. [start of scene setting]  This person seemed cynical…

Do you ever find yourself going around in circles

There is a saying I heard the other day from my great friend and all time fabulous online business advisor Lea Woodward,  when she and I were having one of our regular catchups.   She said, the difference between professionals and amateurs is that professionals keep turning up.  Interestingly, the very same phrase popped up in…